Intentions and Sex Magick

What you have learned in this experience is how to play with energy in a more beneficial way. Through changing (raising we like to say) frequencies we can experience different things including creating the physical experiences we want and having hyperdimensional experiences that can enhance what we create.

There are many ways to change frequencies, and we have covered quite a few here such as meditation, connecting with nature, pumping up the volume etc. In all activities we have the opportunity to change our frequency as well as assist the frequencies of others through quantum entanglement. One extremely effective way to change frequencies is with a practice known as sex magick. (I added the K to make it seem more exciting)

Before I go on, I  must add a disclaimer: What is described here is for educational purposes only. Before beginning any new physical activities or practices it is wise to seek the opinion of your medical advisors. Anything I discuss here is based on 100% consensual approaches.

In this modern era, almost everyone should understand that safe sex practices can change our frequencies in a positive way. We may use that change of frequency to raise a vortex of power and then use that power to draw from a different dimension into the physical dimension. Some call the dimensions planes, vortexes, veils. It matters not. This is the essence of it. At its core sex magick is very simple.

Various texts, however, like to make it all sound mystical. The Golden Dawn likes to use elongated words and hyperbole: ‘setting up a power going up the planes when doing circumambulations in ritual… placing the athame blade into the bowl of a chalice…’ Fortune states it like this: ‘the use of the great potencies and the higher occultism… it is necessary to have a pair working in polarity who can open a channel for divine forces which flow through them with astounding power… By this means the powers of each are tremendously augmented… and brought to the higher perfection of capacities.’

For me, I like a simpler explanation and a simpler practice. I am not trying to achieve universal enlightenment, just have my Intentions show up sooner. If certain sex magick tips can help me achieve that then I am happy to give them a try.

There are many books and courses focused on sex magick and in my opinion, all of them tend to take something as simple as sex and make it so complicated you don’t want to try it. So, the following is my own take on sex magick, it’s based on forty years of personal research, study and of course, the joy of practice.

Hand on heart, I can tell you that I do not consider myself an expert at all. When I talk about sex and the sex-lives with others, I realize I have picked up quite a few useful ideas along the way and I am happy to pass them along.

Keep in mind that everything is choice. There are probably as many semen-retention advocates (Elon Musk apparently is one) who believe in the power of that. I have met male and female tantric practitioners who work on different rituals. I am aware of the claims of certain swinger advocates. However, just as I prefer TQT over complicated meditation rituals, I prefer sex magick over complicated sex rituals.

All that said, I meet very few people who understand the latent power in sex. I also meet very few people who have satisfying sexual experiences and I believe understanding the ritualistic and prolonged nature of sex magick can greatly enhance that. I have also found that much of what is taught about sex magick and even tantric rituals have no merit at all, at least not in my experience.

Perhaps sex magick is more like meditation. There are lots of ideas, lots of opinions, and lots of techniques. One has to find the one or ones that work for you. What can be more fun than experimentation with sex?

I was first intrigued by the power of sex magick several decades ago when I read a book that described the link between the successful and wealthy and their sex drive. I even recall it being mentioned in Think and Grow Rich. Hill said that he looked at all the great entrepreneurs and the one thing he found is they all had a huge sex drive. Implying a connection may be an over-simplification of Hill’s chapter on “The Mystery of Sex: Transmutation.” In my opinion, however, Hill simply lifted the material from an earlier book. He certainly goes into some depth about how the energy of the libido and how often it’s channeled by successful people to focus on achieving specific goals, creative, political, entrepreneurial or otherwise.

It’s also easy to find online reports of scientific research that link high sex drive to ambitiousness. Dozens of studies, including one by psychologist Satoshi Kanazawa from the University of Canterbury found that men who are more successful in their careers have more sex, and more sexual partners. In a De Spiegel interview, Dutch sociobiologist Johan van der Dennen said that compared to “normal men”, powerful men have “an overactive libido”, and that “powerful women also have larger-than-average sexual appetites.”

I was interested in ‘Why?’ After several more books, I concluded that the energy center in the body that corresponds to creativity is the same chakra that heightens sexual pleasure and activity. For me that’s all there is to it. At first, I thought it might be a trade-off, sex or success, but then I realized it was constructive energy, more of one leads to more of the other. This link fascinated me. So, I read on and discovered many books that offer advice on how to transmute that raised frequency into creating more of what we want in general life. Of all the activities in this Transformation Experience I think sex magick offers a complete win. Transmutation can lead to enhanced success and also improves sexual experiences and pleasures.

I studied more of the eastern and western mysticism and began to introduce various rituals into the bedroom. After decades of delicious experimentation, I have the following conclusions and suggestions. These are simply intended to get you started on this path if you choose to.

Again, I am neither an expert nor into ritualistic sex. I simply enjoy sex magick principles and focus more on my partner’s enjoyment than my own, that’s probably the most important advice I have to offer. Here, however, are my opinions… and they are just that… opinions.

• Prolonged sex-play prior to orgasm raises frequency and permits the opening of a door into greater dimensions if one chooses. Choice is a critical decision and many practices include a request and commitment element as part of the ritual.
• Orgasm is not necessary to achieve vortex frequency. Many prefer not to achieve orgasm. I happen to find that moment the most powerful for stepping through the veil especially in my partner.
• Prolonged gentle sex play (gentle massage in particular) post-orgasm or post sex without orgasm, greatly increases the power of the vortex created and can stretch out an orgasm a long time. I have known what experts would call ‘the ecstatic state’ to last more than an hour.
• Recognizing the energy at play during sex requires focus at first, but that observation is 80% of the effort. It quickly becomes second nature and orgasms or non-orgasmic pleasures tend to naturally last longer.
• Learning to observe this transmutation takes a playfulness around sex that is uncommon in the west. Communication, openness, and humor are all necessary bedfellows.

• A partner is not necessary to raise frequency. However, in my life it has been more fun. Setting a relationship intention with this aspect in mind will get you the partner you desire and will also enhance your mini-mind movie along the journey.

• Raising frequency with multiple partners is much more fun, but not necessarily more successful than alone or with one partner.
• Learning to be in the moment of orgasm or near-orgasm and observe that moment leads to the ability to stretch it out. In that stretch, many spiritual and hyperdimensional experiences may be had. They can be blissful, but also distracting in the sense that the bliss can dominate so much we forget to use the energy to pull our Intentions through.
• Stretching the moment gives one the time to imagine one’s Intentions as already fulfilled, thereby pulling from a ‘higher plane’, the vortex necessary to create it in the physical plane. This greatly speeds up the achievement of the Intentions. Focus and discipline is required and the partner(s) can help by reminding one another to, ‘play your mini-mind movie’ whilst enjoying the bliss.
• Though there are many books and advice available on the subject of sex magick, none that I have studied are very practical. The best books I have relied on are, She Comes First, because it is not about sex magick but provides great techniques for a partner to assist a female in extending the stretch. Also, Modern Magick, which focuses more on a ritualistic and rhythmic approach. I am sure there are many such books for male and female.

And of course, your practical application from this activity is to go have fun.Go experiment.Also, there are dance practices to raise frequency. I like shamanic dancing, a practice I only started in the year after my wife died. I don’t need to describe it here as it is so easy to search online for practices that raise vibration and take one into altered states of jiggling strings.The same rule applies. Once in a state of raised consciousness play your mini-mind movie.In 2023 I did a live webinar on this subject. More than 2000 people signed up. Here are the three videos of the event.

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